I am dating a shy guy
I feel terrible wanting to dump him because he isn’t smooth and confident. ] I get wanting to feel that “umph.” A confident and smooth man is sexy. So I can see how you feel that his kindness is not enough. You don’t want to lead him on and crush what seems to be an already tender ego.
[ALSO READ: Ask Sujeiry: Is Taking a Break in a Relationship a Bad Idea? If he has qualities that you are seeking in a partner, give him time to open up and show you his manly man side. If you’re not interested in him romantically, cut him loose.
Unsurprisingly, their social life in general and their dating life in particular look pretty gloomy.
And taking care of this issue is one of the most valuable actions they can accomplish.
So, in this article, I’d like to share with you my most important findings.
Generally speaking, shyness is the result of an overestimation of the risks social situations pose for you.
after a hurricane) would he get pushed around by more confident guys and thus find it harder to survive and to protect her?
At work, would a shy guy be able to get promoted like a confident guy would and if he couldn’t, would that mean that he’d find it harder to survive, thrive and prosper in this world?
They have trouble engaging in conversations and keeping them going, they hide their sexual side, they are often invisible to the girls they like, and if they’re not they often get friend-zoned by these girls.
—— Dear The Trouble with Shy Guys, I’ve been here before! Not because they are mysterious but because I also don’t know what to do with them.
Show him that you are into him, and that it is okay for him to open up and lead like a man.
Of course, it usually works out nicely in Hollywood movies where the nice, shy, awkward guy gets the girl by the end of the movie, but real life is a lot different.
Here’s another example of the dating life of a shy guy…